How do I foster empathy in my children?

First, the why: Empathy plays a significant role in social interactions and emotional intelligence. It enables children (everyone, really) to understand and share others’ feelings. This fosters compassionate interactions, which create positive relationships. Modeling Empathic Behavior Even when the mirror stings, it’s true. Children learn by observing what we do. Parents, teachers, and other role … Read more

Should I require an apology or “I’m sorry” for hitting others?

The short answer: No. An apology is not as important as mending the interpersonal connection. If the child is developmentally capable of empathy, what would they want/need in the other’s place? “Tommy looks sad. How can we help him feel better?” That said, boundaries are critical here. “Hands are not for hitting.”“I can’t let you … Read more